Monday, August 1, 2016

Women's Jam Day 3

I woke up and my first thought was, "Ow."  Following this, I also thought, "Owowowowow."  And finally, I concluded with,"Ow."  I was sore as hell, and I was not alone.  I think every single woman who trained yesterday started the day with the thought of pacing themselves, and in the end, failed miserably.  Thankfully, after starting off the day with another whole foods breakfast, which included mochi because why not, there was a talk by Julie Angel, who wrote a book about the hidden history of parkour:  beyond David Belle and getting into the lives and motivations of the Yamakasi.  It was interesting, and after, I bought two copies of her book:  one for me and one for my library.


Then we went to UC Denver for breakout session workshops and free training.  For the first time, men were invited to part of the ladies' jam, and it was an interesting dynamic because the majority of practitioners were women.
There was a parkour dance company from London doing a workshop, which sounded interesting, and quite frankly less tiring than the climbup or the strength training workshops, so I chose that one.  It started off with a little talk about what th company is and does, then got philosophical about purpose and intent and motivation behind movement.  Then we did some theater games with movement, like levels of energy, acting like animals, pretending the air/surfaces were made of different substances, etc.  Then they introduced a few partner parkour/dance lifts, which I might be able to work in to mine and Bobby's partner acrobatics act:  cartwheel off of a low wall or from the ground but grabbing the base person's waist/legs as they grab the flyer's waist, a lift-spin arabesque, and another cartwheel off a wall but this time placing the hands on the shoulders of the base or waist of the flyer.  Then we had 15 minutes to come up with a short movement skit that included some of those movements and conveyed a story and emotion, but using no words.  What the workshop leaders didn't tell us was that we were going to perform in front of the rest of the jam.  Nikki, my partner, really did not want to, but we did it and had fun and it was fine.  Our skit was two friends who hadn't seen each other in a while meeting up and then playing.  It was simple and fun and everyone got what we were trying to do.
Then I did some more parkour in little spurts, in between resting and stretching and talking with people.  I learned a new vault, called a cowboy vault, which is halfway between a turn vault and a reverse vault and kind of looks like a wall-assisted cartwheel.

The original plan as to have a picnic in the park, but due to the rain and threat of further rain, we went to the Denver location of Apex Movement.  People went and got food on the way and some ate there.  My group decided to have dim sum.  I had never had it before, so I tried a couple things while I was out with them.  It was really good and now I have to find out if there are any dim sum restaurants near me.  Mostly I just drank green tea and chatted though, because I had dinner plans with my cousin Michael, who lives in Denver.
We got to the gym and I quickly said goodbye to people and got my stuff.  After loading it into Michael's truck, he and I went and ate at a burger place nearby.  It was really great catching up and filling each other in on family news and such.  Michael drove me to the airport and we said our goodbyes.  

Then I went and rearranged my life between baggage and carryon and proceeded to the check-in area, where one of the attendants making conversation with me mentioned he used to liv in New Haven, so of course we talked about New Haven pizza and the beach.
The first flight went to Washington, D.C. and was relatively uneventful, save for having to climb over the sleeping person in the aisle seat who would not wake up when I had to pee; parkour skills on a plane!
I am posting from my layover airport and I hope my next flight is just as easy and that the roads are clear so I can get home; pet my dog, and sleep until Bobby comes home.

Ovrall, the jam was fun, well organized (exact jam locations were posted along with organizer contact information and they made sure that everyone got rides to each location), and informative (great breakout sessions whose only drawback was the inability to attend them all simultaneously).  It was motivating and inspiring; there were all kinds of people there   (mothers and daughters, newbies, veterans, abled and disabled, young, old, all races), just coming together for a friendly, fun, non-competitive experience.  I was a bit nervous about going because life and injuries from other things have kept me out of parkour for a while, and I wasn't sure where I stood.  It didn't take too long to get into the groove of training again, though, and I am so glad that I went.  I saw a few old friends that I hadn't in a while and I made a few new ones.  Next year the jam is going to be in Boston, so as soon as they announce the dates I am putting in for the time off and marking my calendar.

Saturday, July 30, 2016

Women's Jam Day 2

I woke up cold, but knew I wouldn't stay that way for long.  Walked to whole foods for breakfast; breakfast burritos are a bad idea but fruit, pasta, and hashbrowns are good.
Caitlin led a warmup, followed by breakout sessions led by some of the other women teaching parkour.  I chose the one on falling safely with Brandee from Seattle.  She is a beast and says she only tries things that seem risky because she knows she will be able to bail safely.  It was good practice on some stuff I already knew and informative about some new techniques.
Locals/people with cars drove groups to the University of Colorado, getting lunch on the way.  Some of the people in my group got huge meals but I would be sick eating that much right before jumping around in the heat, so I got a small salad with chicken and some really good cilantro dressing.
At UC, we played a version of name tag where the "it" person tried to tag people out, but that person could shout another's name and avoid being tagged, and that person whose name was called was the new "it".  People tagged out met up a little way off to start their own game, and tagged out people went back to the original group.  Everyone had name tags on, and it was a fun getting to know you game.
A very nice police officer told us that parkour is not allowed on campus, but we didn't look destructive, so we could keep on "practicing fitness" and nobody would bother us.
I was pleasantly surprised to learn that after warming up with smaller jumps, I still have my maximum precision distance.  I also was able to cat-balance all the way down a 23-of-my-feet rail.  There were a lot of smaller things I did, just messing around, but those are the highlights of UC training for me.  
It was nice to see new people and little girls and older moms training, actually training and enjoying themselves, along with the hardcore traceuses and hobbyists.  One traceuse had a shirt I want that said, "Parkour:  disciplined not dangerous."
After that we went to a park and hiked up a mountain.  It was a short hike but it was very vertical.  There was a rock formation at the top that everyone climbed up to various levels and we took a group picture there.  It was my goal to make it all the way to the top, but when I started getting dizzy, I decided scaling rock faces was maybe not the best decision.  It was 98 degrees out and I was at a higher elevation than I had probably ever been and I had been doing parkour all day, so, I don't regret making the safe decision.  The view from where I got was pretty cool.

After hiking back down, I went with Stephanie and her daughter Laura and this other girl Kat to get supper.  There is this restaurant chain here called Noodles & Company that serves noodle dishes from all over the world.  It was pretty darn good.
Then it was back to the gym for challenges and open practice.  I was so tired, though, I only did a few of the challenges and spent maybe 20 minutes of the two hours actually moving.  I spent the rest of the time resting, reading, and writing...and also securing my comfortable couch position.  There were a lot fewer people staying at the gym tonight, but there was still a long bathroom wait and they still kept the lights on too damn long.  I am already sore, prior to sleeping, which is not a good sign.  No amount of stretching or foam rolling is going to save me from my fate; tomorrow is going to suck.

Travel and warmup day for 2016 North American Women's Parkour Jam

This day started early and ended late.  I left the house at 4:00 in the morning for a white-knuckled drive to the airport in the rain and dark and surrounded by Mac trucks which didn't always stay in their lane.  I park, managing to catch the shuttle just as it is leaving.  The airport is way more crowded than the last time I took a flight this early, to the point where I would have missed it had I waited in the normal checkin line and not asked an attendant where to go for my particular flight.  She set up a special express lane for me and other passengers on that flight.  After that, security went by relatively quickly and I had some time before boarding.  I enjoyed a window seat, when I wasn't napping, and it was a relatively easy experience.


I had what was supposed to be an hour and a half layover extended to nearly three hours, but I managed to find a working outlet to charge my phone while reading my book, and all was well.
Again I had a window seat, but this time, the strangers sitting next to me were and old Indian couple who did not speak English and clearly hadn't flown much either.  They tried asking me various things, like the time and if the water and snacks were free, which I eventually worked out.  They had trouble communicating with the flight attendants as well and wound up just getting whatever I was getting because they could point and parrot the words.  At one point shortly after some pilot announcement, the guy tried talking to me again, and the only word I could get from him was the number 33.  He repeated the sentence with it in it a couple times then just the number.  "I get you, 33.  But 33 what?"  It really made absolutely no sense.  I felt bad because I wanted to help them, but I really, really could not figure out what they were saying.

Anyway, after we landed, it was off to baggage claim, where I spied the following signage:

This is the first time I have ever seen such a thing.  I didn't realize Colorado got tornados that frequently.  My friend Jamie happened to be free and in the area, so she picked me up from the airport.  There were multiple pickup areas and they were poorly labeled, so we spent way too long trying to find one another before a very helpful policeman helped us out.  From there, we drove to Boulder and got food at this burger bar.  I wish I had taken a picture of the bathroom doors.  They were so confusing.  The men's room door said women and the women's room door said men.  The words were painted on there, inside the arm of a person which they were describing, but the arm was pointed at the other door.  So, yeah, I went in the wrong room to wash my hands before our food arrived and didn't even realize it until a dude walked in.  There weren't regular urinals to clue me in, either.  There was this long basin tucked into an alcove behind the regular stalls that was easy to miss.  Very strange.  Anyway, I had a cheeseburger with avocado and fries with a Mr.Pibb, and I ate all of it.  I was hungry after all that traveling.  Then we drove around downtown Boulder for a while, and found this indie clothing store that had some pretty cool stuff in it; if I were still in my hippie-clothing phase I would have wanted almost everything in there.  As it was, I walked away with a new outfit for a very reasonable price that I can wear to work.  Jamie had plans for the late afternoon, so she dropped me off at the gym.  I still had a few hours to kill so I located a bookstore to sit and read in (the library was not within walking distance) while I waited for the gym to open.  During this time, I almost finished my plane book, drank a smoothie, and played phone tag with Bobby.

The gym's open jam starts; I get to train with people I hadn't seen in a year or more:  Brandee, Jackie, Caitlin, Nikki, and a bunch of others from the early days.  I also meet new people: Natalie (Jackie's girlfriend who clearly makes her happy because I have never seen Jackie smile so much), Aiko (we practice the warped wall together for a while, neither getting to the top, but having more fun sliding down when we fail, Tiffany (who became my couch buddy when the gym went into sleep mode), and too many others to name.

I trained a bunch but don't do anything too crazy, because I have two more full days of this to look forward to and I don't want to waste all my energy right away.  When I get too tired, I take a kind of nap on the couch in the waiting area, then go to train some more and fail immediately on an easy jump I had made before.  I ice my shins and call it a day; I consider this a warning shot from my body, telling me that I am too tired to continue training.  So I nap on the couch with my ice pack in between chatting with Tiffany.

The jam eventually ends and people start trying to find places to sleep.  Tiffany and I have already secured the corner couch and share pillow space.  There is a lot of waiting for the bathroom, during which time I reorganize backpacks to get ready for tomorrow, write notes about today to expand upon later, and wonder if they will ever turn off the damn light.  Eventually they do and I fall asleep.

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Day 8, Sunday, January 3rd – Delpi Day

Our final full day was all about Delphi. We woke up early and drove out to Delphi on the bus, which took like three hours. Before we left, the pharmacies were all closed again, so I asked our bus's tour guide, Tassos, if he knew somewhere that was open where I could buy medicine. He said nothing would be open now, but he spoke in Greek to one of the front desk staff of the hotel and got me a couple of capsules. I couldn't read anything written on the packaging, but at this point, my cold had gotten so much worse I really didn't care as long as it worked. I read most of the trip, but I did look up regularly to enjoy the amazing mountain scenery. Mountains disappearing into clouds on one side, farmland on the other. Later, a vertical wall of rock to one side and a sheer cliff drop into fog on the other. Then, a small town built into the mountain with streets all on different levels and huge staircases connecting them. Some of these roads were super thin and winding, so I applaud our driver for getting us there and back safely. It's difficult to get pictures from a moving bus with tinted and somewhat dirty windows with glare, so I mostly didn't bother. I took a panoramic of one of the mountains across from a rest stop on the way there. It really just doesn't capture how awe-inspiring the countryside really is here.

At the Delphi ruins, we saw another temple to Apollo, but this one was special because this was where the prophet Pythia got her visions from the gods. We learned that people would write their questions down on clay tablets and give them to the priests, who would then give them to Pythia. She would go to the gods with questions two or three times a month, so people often had to wait a long time for their answers. When they got them, they were often cryptic riddles or made no sense. The reason behind this is that there was a spring near the temple where Pythia would bathe, but this spring produces gasses which caused her to hallucinate, and while she hallucinated and babbled incoherently, the priests would write down her ramblings and interpret them as messages from above and answers to people's questions. Interesting stuff. The ruins of Delphi were pretty cool, and they were spread out on a big hill, so it wound up being more of a hike than I'd anticipated. Then, it started raining. We retreated to the attached museum to look at more statues and Bobby did parkour on the steps before heading out to lunch at a local restaurant. We shared lamb, salad, and the best grilled cheese. Now, when I say that, I'm not talking about a sandwich. They just took two thick slices of cheese and put it on a grill. I don't remember what it was called, but it's a special cheese that is only made in this tiny mountain town in the middle of nowhere in the Greek countryside. It was a bit salty but then also really savory and it wasn't melted or crumbly either. It kind of squeaked on your teeth when you chewed it. I really can't describe it, but it was absolutely the best food of the trip, except maybe those cakes from Aegina. But still. Amazing.

I read some more on the way back, and it was getting dark by then, so there wasn't much to see outside my window. We had a little time at the hotel before dinner, at a different restaurant, where we ate outside in this enclosed, semi-heated sidewalk area. The food on the first courses was so good I nearly didn't have room for the main one. They had the standard salad and bread, then some stuffed grape leaves, a really tasty sausage, and some other things I couldn't identify but tasted good. The main course was a lasagna, but it didn't have red sauce or Italian cheeses. It was a strange Greek lasagna, but it was also good. For dessert, there was an almond cake thing and ice cream, which I don't know how I managed to make room for, but I did.


Then it was back to the hotel. We had a 2:30am wake-up call, so a regular night's sleep wasn't going to happen.

Day 7, Saturday, January 2nd – Final Concert

I went to sleep alright, but I woke up in the middle of the night with a coughing fit. It was so bad that it woke Bobby up. He got a steam shower going for me and helped me breathe almost normally again, and eventually I went back to sleep. Bobby got up early to try and find me some more cold medicine, but was unsuccessful. The pharmacies were all closed, because it was early, and then he found one that was supposed to open right before we got on the bus and he waited outside until 15 minutes after the posted time and nobody came. I'm not sure if it was because it's still Christmas here until January 6th and lots of things are closed, or if they're all permanently closed due to the tanked economy here, or if they're just super-lazy and open stores whenever they damn-well feel like it (I know some other European countries do that). Any way you slice it, it's annoying. I got up, ate, got into my fancy concert attire, and hung out in the lobby for over half an hour with the chorus for some unknown reason while our conductor went over some notes that she's already given us a hundred times. I'm usually very dedicated, but we were supposed to have an actual rehearsal/sound check in the concert space, and this mish-mash huddling and talking through stuff over and over was just not working for me. I think Dr. Gemme was just nervous, but given how we always step up our game for actual concerts, and have been on point this whole trip despite being cold and tired all the time, she really should have just trusted us to put our game faces on when it actually mattered. I was so not about faking my “joyful” face in the damn lobby at ass o'clock in the morning when I should have been napping on the bus on my way to the real rehearsal. I'd taken my last sudafed at breakfast and it hadn't kicked in yet, so that was certainly not helping my mood.

By the time we got to the theater, my medicine had started working, and I was only coughing occasionally, so I thought it would be okay. Despite feeling the worst I'd felt so far on the trip, I wasn't going to miss this. I didn't come to Greece to stay in my hotel room and sleep; I came here to sing. The sound checks were delayed and had to be shortened, because there was some issue with the risers not being set up yet. This may have been why we didn't leave on time. Regardless, I think she should have just told us there was a problem with the risers, and we should have just gone to the concert hall and had rehearsal in the green room while they set up the stage. There was a place that was big enough for everyone where we could have worked through musical stuff so when the stage was ready we were just testing for the sound techs. But, whatever, above my paygrade.

When the individual choirs went on stage, everyone sounded lovely. When we went on as the big group, we sounded nice too. However, in the middle of one of our quiet pieces, I feel a coughing fit coming on. I start trying to quietly clear my throat; it doesn't work. I try to just mouth the words instead of singing to avoid agitating it until we get to a loud part where I can cough unnoticed; opening my mouth and putting air on my throat makes it worse. I close my mouth and try to just overcome it, but I can't. My eyes are watering, I can't breathe, my chest is seizing, and I feel like I'm going to throw up or faint. Of course I'm in the middle of the middle of 100 singers and there's no easy way for me to casually sneak off stage, and I feel like ducking behind the people in front of me and hacking away on the floor would be even more distracting to the singers around me than the coughing. When I can't hold it anymore, I cough loudly several times, and we're still in the quiet part of the piece, and the world-famous conductor is looking right at me. I can't tell if he's mad or concerned, but he definitely notices. I cough as little as possible, but it sounds as loud as cannon fire to my own ears. I manage to hold the rest of the fit in until the piece ends and the audience applauses, but I'm not done coughing by the time they're done clapping, and he just goes right into the next piece, which starts off quietly. So, great. I feel like I've single-handedly fucked up the whole concert. Eventually I get my lungs under control and I'm able to go on and sing through the rest of the music in the concert, and for most of it, I'm perfectly fine. There were a few sustained notes I had to drop out early from, but that didn't really matter as much. I think the only person who fucked up worse than me was an alto from another choir who came in too early at the start of a section after a silent pause. So embarrassing. At least mine was involuntary, not due to lack of paying attention (though his conducting style is weird and I could see how a person would make that mistake). After all the applause, and thank-yous, etc. we're filing off stage and Simon Carrington is giving all the chorus members a hug as they file off past him back stage, and I swear he hesitated and almost didn't hug me. It might be germophobia (I'm not too keen on hugging sick people either), it might be my imagination, or it might be that he was really pissed off at me. I just have to remember that I did all I could and if that's not good enough, it's not like I'll ever see this person again or he'll have any sway over my life from here on out.

We take our group pictures inside and outside the beautiful 100-year-old theater, and get on the bus back to the hotel. I'm wrecked by this point, physically and mentally, so I sleep during our free time and Bobby and I grab quick sandwiches and a shop a couple blocks away from the hotel before getting back on the bus.

We go to the Acropolis Museum, which has many original remains from the Parthenon and surrounding temples that make up the Acropolis that we'd toured earlier. The columns and such are there, but they've recreated much of the statuary and carved art to protect the originals from weather. One of the floors was a scaled reproduction of the temple that you could walk through and see where the various statues and such should have been. It was sadly very incomplete because much of the original work was destroyed in various wars. I think the coolest part of the museum was the part where they showed what the statues used to look like and how they made the various colored paints that they used. I actually didn't know before that all these white marble statues were all brightly painted when they were made, but were just terribly faded from sun, wind, and rain over the centuries. They also had a Lego-replica of the Acropolis, which was neat, because I'm a child and I like Legos.  Also, outside, and on the lower floor, parts of it were clear so you could see through to the archaeological dig site where some of the pieces from the museum came from.


After the museum, we finally got free time in Plaka. Bobby and I bought souvenirs for all the people, including ourselves, which we often forget to do when we travel; we get stuff for all our family members but not us. This time there were some tasty local things we'd sampled that we couldn't pass up. We met the group back at the museum and walked together to a nearby restaurant for our big group farewell dinner. By this time, the sun had gone down, my medicine had worn off, and so I was back to being cold and sick. I was quieter than I otherwise would have been, but I still enjoyed the dinner. All of the choirs were there, and although we weren't the only ones in the restaurant, we were in a separate banquet room, so hopefully the noise didn't carry too badly. Thankfully, nobody got up and sang unbeckoned, but there were a couple of birthdays and the wait staff brought out guitars and a cake slice with a candle on it. When we all sang the Happy Birthday song, there were all sorts of harmonies, and it was actually pretty fun. This dinner was also about a million courses. Bread, Greek Salad (which actually doesn't have lettuce in it), veggie fritter things with cheese, baked feta bowl of cheese, pasta with meat and cheese, and then the main course was a pork leg. The whole drumstick. Three people cold have shared that much meat, but each person got their own. It was crazy. Then baklava for dessert. I was stuffed. We went out in groups to separate busses, and went back to our hotels. I crashed pretty much immediately.

Friday, January 1, 2016

Day 6, Friday, January 1st – The Greek Islands

I woke up several times in the middle of the night, despite purposely staying up late enough that I wouldn't jet-lag myself awake after an exhaustion-induced nap. The reason was coughing, sore throat, or being unable to breathe. When Bobby and I got up in the morning, I was seriously considering skipping what was supposed to be the best tour of the trip to stay in bed. Luckily, I had a sudafed tablet in the recesses of my purse, and it got me through the day. I'd have been really upset if I had missed out on the island cruise because of a stupid fucking cold. I was still coughing a bit and took naps whenever possible while waiting for things to start, but I could participate in the day in a meaningful way.

The cruise was an all-day affair. We got up early, went to the bus, then the boat, and had a lengthy trip out to Poros. On the ride, they had some people teaching traditional Greek dancing, as well as live music, for a portion of the time. Of course I participated, and it was really fun. I think there may be video evidence somewhere of me and some other chorus members attempting not to trip over our own feet and each other's as the music speeds up. Bobby and I also went up to the top deck where there were bars to play on and bolted-down tables to jump over when everyone else was keeping warm in the lower level lounge areas. We did spend a good amount of time there ourselves, mostly napping when there wasn't something specific like the dancing to do, and socializing a bit with some members of the choir that we don't normally have a chance to talk to. I like that trips are good for things like this, because our regular rehearsals are pretty much all business.

We had a little over an hour of time to spend on Hydra. You could take a donkey ride if you wanted (a traditional mode of transportation), but it was just a cheesy little ride around the block for five euros, and we decided it would be better to just explore the city on foot. Almost everything was closed because the new year is a holiday they take very seriously over there, but luckily the island was nice enough to just explore without an activity in mind. I took pictures of so many flowers, and doorways, and alleys, and hill-top panoramic views, and cats, that I'd killed half the battery in our camera. It didn't help that we were too tired to remember to charge the thing last night. The weather was so much warmer and nicer than yesterday. At one point I even took off my gloves and the first layer of sweatshirts. There were a lot of cats on this island, moreso than the Parthenon had, and a few dogs, too...I'm not sure what the deal is with all the strays. They do seem to be better-fed and better-groomed for the most part (with a few very sad exceptions) than you'd expect strays to be, and also very social. I nearly tripped over the most beautiful white cat with striking light blue eyes because it was trying to rub up against me. I'm allergic, so I'm just trying to take pictures from a distance, but Bobby went all cat-whisperer on me and had mobs of them coming up to him and at one point literally fighting to be pet. At one point, the aforementioned white cat and an equally striking black cat were being pet on opposite sides of him, and it was like this strange cat yin-yang thing going on...until a calico came up and hissed one of the cats away because it wanted a turn.

The ride to the second island was just about long enough for lunch. Half the people went with us, the other half would go after the island, because the dining room wasn't big enough. The food was a buffet, of course, and with similar fare to what we'd been eating at the hotel for supper. They did have stuffed grape leaves, though, which I hadn't had in so long that I didn't remember if I liked them or not. I now know why I didn't remember; I thought it was just OK. If it had been great or terrible, I'd have known what I thought about it. They also had a walnut-honey cake for dessert, which was by far the best part of the meal. I followed this up with some more nap time before the island of Poros.

On Poros we had a bit less time to explore, but we did manage to get up to the top of their biggest hill for a breathtaking but also scary view of the islands in the surrounding sea. Bobby also picked a grapefruit from a tree that was just hanging over the alley-stairwell full of ripe fruit, and he did this by jumping straight up into the air. Never a dull moment with that boy. On the ride to the third island, the other group was eating, and the little half-deck area with a bar and a shop were not nearly big enough for everyone not eating. By this time, the sun was sinking and the wind was picking up, so it was cold outside, where we wound up spending the majority of our time before the dining room opened to everyone again. I borrowed Bobby's coat and fell asleep in a chair while he jumped on things. The medicine was pretty well worn off by then, but I need to save my one remaining pill and cough drop for tomorrow's concert. After that, it won't matter what I sound like, and hopefully I'll be getting over it by then, so drugs won't be necessary.

Aegina was the third and final island we would visit, and everything was closed on that one too. It was too big to just walk around on for two hours, so we booked one of the cruise's “optional” bus tours. I liked being in a warm vehicle, and it did have some pretty scenery, though pictures were not easy to take, due to it being a moving bus. We did stop to see a nice cathedral briefly, and get some pistachios, which the island is famous for. After the bus portion, our tour group went to a restaurant to sample some local food. It was mostly seafood that was very clearly once a living creature with a face, and some salted vegetables. They also gave us this liquor called “oozo” which is like drinking licorice on fire. I don't like licorice anyway, so after confirming that I didn't like oozo, I let Bobby have my share. He doesn't drink but he loves licorice, so this drink was a mixed blessing for him. We had enough time after to wander around and find a little bakery that happened to be open, and we got some baklava and other little desserts for later.


More napping and intermittent Greek dance lessons took up the trip back to the mainland, where we got back on the bus and went back to the hotel. We were theoretically on our own for supper, but we were too tired to go out again, plus it had gotten really cold and windy again, so we stayed in and ate our cold leftovers from Angie's Way. Bobby went to bed right away, but I wanted to write and color a bit more. But now it's time for sleep. Our final concert is tomorrow. I just hope I feel better by then.

Day 5, Thursday, December 31st – And a happy new year!

Due to how tired we were the night before, neither Bobby nor myself could be bothered to go down to the hotel lobby for wi-fi to check on the weather forecast. Earlier in the week, everything all looked the same: partly cloudy, mid-50s. Well, that changed, and not for the better. Today was to be our big outdoor sightseeing and holiday concert day, and it was so cold that it was snowing! A far cry from 50°. I had two sweatshirts with me, and left a third one and my thinnest had/gloves/scarf set back in the hotel. Had I known it would be that cold, I'd have brought them. Not that it would have done much good, because even people in real winter jackets (I didn't even bring mine to Greece) were shivering.

Regardless, the lot of us hiked up the mountain to the Acropolis where the Parthenon and some other ruins were. It was really pretty, but also really windy and even colder than down below. There were a significant number of stray cats that inhabited these ruins, which were also really friendly and let people pet them. Many parts of the Acropolis were roped off for restoration, but the ones that weren't were all really slippery marble and therefore very difficult to get purchase on. This meant that doing any meaningful parkour (in the hopes of keeping warm) was out of the question for safety reasons (I was ready to ignore my bad shoulder to gain some body heat), though we did manage to get a couple of shots of small stuff in on the things we were allowed to touch. On our way out, we spied hot chocolate for sale at the gift shop, and even though the price was a little ridiculous, it was worth every euro. Even just holding it to keep my hands warm while waiting for the bus was just lovely. Beyond that, it actually tasted delicious. It was the perfect creamy consistency, not bitter, watery, or too sweet.

From there, we went to Syntagma Square, which is the center of the city where Greek Parliament meets and where there's a fountain and a giant Christmas tree and a lot of people always moving. We did a sound check on the stage we were going to be using, and then had about 20 minutes to get warm before our performance. It was just about enough time to run across the street to the mobbed Greek McDonald's for fries and hot chocolate and to use the bathroom before heading back. The hot chocolate wasn't as good as the Parthenon hot chocolate, but it was still better than you'd expect at a McDonald's back home.

One thing should be noted: it's rude in Greece to just go into a place to use its bathroom, even a fast food place. Unlike America, where half the purpose of a McDonald's is that there are public restrooms. In theirs, it was on a separate floor, and had a keypad to get in. On the bottom of your receipt there was a 4-digit code that changed daily which would let you in the bathroom, and a button on the inside wall you had to press to get back out again. Once you got in, there was a boy side and a girl side, but the doors to each restroom were propped open, so everyone's just waiting in this tiny hallway and you can see into both rooms. I mean, there are stalls, so you just see the sinks, but still, a bit weird. The stalls in all the bathrooms I've been in here have very high walls and in some cases there isn't even a gap between them, so it's more like a little room than the half-walled stalls we have back home with the awkward gaps between the doors and panels that people can watch you through. Most of the toilets are more square or circular rather than oval shaped like ours, and many also have two different flush buttons, usually on the wall above the toilet, not actually attached to it, or else on the top of it rather than the side. I know that in toilets like these, one button is for #1 and uses less water, and the other button is for #2 and uses enough to make sure it all flushes, but in many instances, it wasn't clear which button was which, because they weren't labeled, so, yeah, the whole public bathroom experience in this country takes some getting used to.

The performance in the square was a lot less formal than yesterday's at the big, fancy theater. It was also just us and one other choir doing our own stuff, rather than the stuff together with the guest conductor (though he did show up to watch, which he didn't have to, so that was nice). We sang a few of our own songs and then mostly Christmas carols, and the other choir had a similar repertoire. They did a very similar version of one of the same carols that we sang before them (womp womp), but nobody in the audience seemed to care. The Greeks did know a fair number of our Christmas songs in English, and later in our free time, English-language Christmas music could be heard throughout the shopping district. Many of the people who worked in restaurants or other public-service places were pretty decently fluent in English, unlike some places I've been to, so the language barrier here hasn't been that noticeable. Until you look at all the signs, and everything is in Greek. Bobby had commented on how it was weird to be in a place where he was illiterate because even the alphabet was different, and I told him, “Well, that's how I felt in Japan, so the feeling itself isn't that new to me, but yeah, it is strange-feeling compared to America.” And he says, genuinely, “Oh, I'm SO sorry. I never realized that before.”

After our performance, we were on our own for lunch and had about an hour and a half to do whatever. This time, the part of town was a lot more busy and full of shops, but they were all selling things like $400 pairs of shoes, so nothing tourists like us would be interested in. Bobby and I walked off on our own and found an outdoor place called Angie's Way, so we kind of had to go there. The food was so good (chicken with mushroom sauce and potatoes for me, gyro for Bobby) that we had to take it home. Even though the place had those gas-powered outdoor heater things, we were still really cold, so we shared our third cup of hot chocolate for the day. It was almost as good at the Parthenon hot chocolate. Their process must be different or they must have a secret ingredient to make it all taste so good here.

At this point, we were supposed to have gone on a bus tour of a few city sights, but everyone was so cold and tired that we had some time at the hotel before a miniature version of the tour. We only got out once, briefly, at the first Olympic stadium in modern times. They told us about a few other famous buildings that we've actually driven by before just on the way to our hotel, but it wasn't really photo-friendly because the sun had almost set by then and we were moving. After the long day, though, nobody seemed to mind. I hope that we get some free time during daylight when it's not snowing out to go by there again and actually have the presence of mind to appreciate them. Being freezing and still sick was not really putting me in a mood to appreciate the culture and architecture of foreign lands.

The restaurant they took us to was nice and in a decent area that I hope we get to go back to in our free time later in the week. We're walking through these cobblestone streets with cute little store-fronts that will all be closed on our way back from dinner, and all I'm thinking is, “Couldn't they have dropped us here, in Plaka, two days ago for our free time?”

We walk into the restaurant and there are two men on a little stage with string instruments (one is a guitar, the other is some Greek stringed instrument similar to a banjo or ukelele in sound but triangular shaped in the body). Every table is empty. I'm thinking, “Great, the whole place to ourselves! It's like they learned from the last trip when people got loud celebrating new year's eve and pissed off the whole restaurant.” We're all seated, but there are four tables that are sitting empty. This is not a good sign. Whatever, on with the night. The band is a traditional Greek music ensemble and they were doing both singing and instrumental pieces. They were really talented and I liked the music. Later, when they were selling their CDs, I got one, and not just because I felt bad about how our comrades were acting.

The waiters were all really lively and funny, and when a few of the more upbeat songs came on and a couple of the usual suspects in choir got up and started dancing, they started dancing with them and showing them some Greek steps. It was all pretty funny, at least to begin with, but I knew exactly where this was going. Our meal was about a million courses. First there was bread, then this yogurt-cucumber sauce/mash thing which was amazing (touziki? I can't remember the name). Then sausages, our main course, and tangerines for dessert. You could choose chicken or steak for your main course, and Bobby found out the hard way that “steak” to them means “pork”. He said it was really good anyway, as was my chicken, so it all worked out. All the courses except for the main one were communally served and we put our own portions on individual plates. It's interesting how many places do that with food regularly.

One of the usual suspects went up and asked one of the band members if he knew a certain song, and then sang it while he played it, and everyone was singing along and it was all well and good, because we were still alone at that point and still having fun. It really should have stopped there, but if you give these guys an inch, they'll take a mile, and I'm not sure why the chaperones on the trip didn't stop these kind of antics, because anyone could see they were absolutely going to get out of hand, and they did. It was after this first song when a Japanese tour group came in to occupy the other empty tables, and we began betting on how long it would take for our group to drive them away. We were relatively quiet at first because food had just been served to us and everyone was eating, but it didn't take long for the same people to go up and bother the musicians again. Seriously, this is so disrespectful. They are being paid to entertain and enlighten us with their culture. I didn't come to Greece to listen to a bunch of drunk/over-tired/hyperactive college kids act like assholes and earn the reputation that Americans have when they go abroad. On top of that, we all had just experienced in our outdoor concert several noises happening right around us that we had to sing over and were disruptive...a random dude proselytizing, somebody with their own P.A. across the street singing their own Christmas songs with a cup out in front for money, phones going off...why would we want to subject our fellow performers to the same level of one-upsmanship and disregard for their craft? I wanted to go up and apologize to the musicians on behalf of the group, but it's not really my place, because I'm just a passenger on this crazy train, and the conductors were letting it become a train-wreck. I think there were four more interruptions for “guest performances” before it all stopped (some of them none-too-good, either) because it was time for us to go. But not before the Japanese group all left in a hurry as soon as their dinner was finished, and a group of regular Greek customers came in, sat down, and left without ordering because they saw how crazy it was.

Now, I'm far from a stick-in-the-mud, and I understand that bringing in the new year in another country is cause to celebrate, but there are appropriate expressions of joy and inappropriate ones. When you start annoying people, or there are people outside of your group that could possibly be annoyed in the first place, it's maybe time to stop. It's like going to a party where you don't know everyone there but you only tell inside jokes...most of which aren't even that funny. Nobody's going to think it's cute but you. Even just the dancing would have been fine, despite the fact that there wasn't really space for it between the tables, because that isn't detracting from another's performance or enjoyment of the evening, and Greeks love to get up and dance. If we had the room to ourselves and it was just noise carrying over to regular diners, it may have been almost acceptable, but we were sharing a space with other people and anybody with eyes could see that we were annoying them. I really try to avoid doing this myself when I go out places, and I appreciate when those I'm with call me out on my shenanigans. It's not like these people were unaware of social norms either; at least two of them were on the previous trip when things got out of hand and were reprimanded for their behavior, and everyone was given a speech about respectfully representing themselves, the university, and America at all times while traveling.  What's worse, is that when they're not acting like complete assholes, they're genuinely fun to hang out with, so I'm doubly disappointed because I can't just write them off as bad people.


The whole thing put a damper on what otherwise was an incredibly enjoyable evening after a long, cold, hard day. The dinner at the restaurant was not meant to actually ring in the new year, so people were brought back to the hotel and left to their own devices sometime around 9. Bobby was so tired he fell right asleep. I listened to the music blasting down from the rooftop bar of the hotel and the fireworks, but I was too tired to put on shoes and join them. I stayed up until midnight writing and coloring just so I could wake Bobby up and wish him “Kalihronya” (Happy New Year in Greek) and go to sleep myself.

Day 4, Wednesday, December 30th – All of the singing

I had Greek yogurt with honey and then some fruit and pastries for breakfast. Then I went back to the room to grab a quick shower before our day full of singing. Last night I started feeling sick, and I'm still feeling that way this morning. I hope I shake it off and it doesn't become another full-blown illness. Because coughing, sneezing, and losing your voice is exactly what you want to happen in the middle of a concert tour.

We started off the day with an almost-three-hour dress rehearsal with the big group. In the new, new arrangement in the performance space, I was free of Over-singing Tenor, but I wound up next to Halitosis Woman. It is difficult to sing when every intake of breath is the rank smell of your neighbor, who, admittedly, at least always sings the correct notes. I eventually found a way to over-angle my body towards the conductor and step back on the riser farther than I should have so that I got clean air most of the time, but make no mistake, the struggle was real. Also, this space was a bit too hot. I came prepared for cold, with two sweatshirts, because the last places were old and very cold. This one was modern, and the stage lights made me very warm. There is just no winning with the temperatures here.

Side note, I took a look around at their setup, and when I saw the people who worked at the theater running around adjusting things, the theater techie in me wanted to go up to them and say hi, and be like, “My People!”, but that probably would've been weird. Plus, I don't know how to say, “My People!” in Greek.

Anyway, after a lengthy rehearsal, we had about three hours of free time, which would have been great, except that we were in the middle of the industrial part of Athens where the theater was that we were singing in. There was absolutely nothing to do. Everyone got food at the same two gyro places right next to the theater. They obviously slow-roast their meat, because they had all sorts of it spinning over coals in the front windows, but one place had one spit that was just goat heads, and the other place had a whole goat. I guess people eat a lot of goat meat here, which makes sense, but it's still a weird thing to see. I almost took pictures, but I thought that might be a little too gruesome to share with people. The food, at least, was really good. Bobby and I both got gyros, and they then gave us a free dessert of yogurt and honey. There was enough food that we could have taken it with us, but there's no way to reheat it in our hotel room, plus we'd have to carry it around for the next two and a half hours, so we didn't. I always feel bad wasting food, but we kind of didn't have a choice here. After eating, we wound up back at the theater, hanging out in the lobby with the other bored chorus members while the other groups rehearsed their individual pieces and we waited our turn for the performance space. After a while I asked someone at the theater's ticket booth if there was anything to do around here. He spoke decent English and directed us to a mall about a half-mile walk down the road (he gave the distance in meters, but I don't remember what it was after we figured out the conversion). He was so apologetic when he was saying how there was really nothing else to do in this part of Athens, like he didn't understand either why we couldn't have been bussed back to our hotel or pretty much anywhere else in the city before our rehearsal. I mean, we could have gone back and stared at the spinning goat heads in the windows of the restaurants next door, but that would probably have given me nightmares.

We walked to the mall with some of the other chorus folk and wandered around aimlessly looking at pretty much all the same stores as you would find in an American mall. There was a little Christmas Bazaar going on and a Book Bazaar too, where I almost bought a book in Greek just to have, but decided against it. I would never be able to read it and I don't know anybody who could. They had some cool holiday decorations, though, including a red throne and a huge Christmas tree, and a neat little art gallery too. They had one unique thing there, which was a play place for kids, including riding around on motorized animals with wheels on them, a rollerblading rink, and a trampoline place. I only wish these areas were adult-sized, because even as tired as I was, I so would have found the energy to do any of those things. We found a super-market in the cellar and got some water and other drinks and by then it was time to head back to the theater for another hour and a half rehearsal.

This rehearsal was with only our own people, and though we all knew the music pretty well, we were all so tired that we were messing up. I few times I zoned out so hard in the middle of the song that I lost my place and didn't come in on time, because I was practically falling asleep standing up. After rehearsal, we went back to the hotel for supper (pretty similar to the first night in the regular hotel buffet area), even though it felt like we just ate recently, and had about an hour after that before getting ready for our concert. Bobby and I both conked out immediately after supper, which was probably a mistake, because we woke up feeling sick due to not sleeping enough. There really was no way either of us was going to stay awake, though. I was so tired that my bones hurt.

We barely had a warm-up before the concert, which was good, because at this point, my voice had been giving out on me during the first rehearsal of the day and I was just heavy with a head cold. Perfect timing. I always seem to do this—manage to get sick right at the worst possible time. I was really sick a few years ago when the chorus I was in at URI performed at Carnegie Hall; I found out only later in the week when the trip was over and I was still feverish and coughing that I'd had pneumonia the whole time. I really hope that this one is just a cold.

The concert itself was actually pretty amazing. We got to hear the other choirs sing, and they sounded really good. We found out later that one of them, the one from Canada, was an audition choir and all of them were professional musicians or music majors in their own right. It really showed in their technical skill. I must say, though, that our chorus's selections were more varied and I think we visibly had more fun on stage. The third choir was a small orthodox church choir and they didn't sing their own songs for some reason in the concert, but just joined in the big group. I found that to be a bit weird, but whatever. Above my pay-grade.


Although I was just trying to get through the concert alive at the start of it, as soon as we started singing, I was so energized by the music, and the audience, and everything about where we were. I think that was probably the best performance that this chorus has ever done. Of course by the time it ended and the group photos were taken and we were back on the bus, I was so dog-tired I barely made it up the five flights of stairs to my room and almost forgot to take my shoes and dress off before passing the fuck out. Unlike the night before, I slept through almost the whole night and only woke up once.